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    What Are Those Things You Must Never Do Or Say To Your Partner?

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    It takes a lot of effort to bring a man and a woman from different backgrounds and ideologies together to live peacefully as a pair. Despite this, the couple still has some issues to work out with each other.

    Couples can all say some pretty awful things to their partner in the heat of the moment. While most people understand that you were just upset and didn’t mean it, there are some statements that might have a significant negative impact on your relationship.

    A good example of what a couple should not say to their partner is… ‘‘You will do that if you truly love me.”

    Experts explain that this is emotional blackmail. You’re not doing it on purpose, but you’re unconsciously trying to control and pressurize your partner into doing what you believe is correct because you either want your own way or believe you know best.

    Saying this will create an imbalance and a power struggle in your relationship, leading to resentment and irritation on one or both sides.

    Family Lifer members, what are those things you think partners should not say or do to each other even when they are upset? Let’s discuss.

    Read Also: Is It Advisable For Couples To Confess Cheating To Each Other?

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    • #20347
      Bernard
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      hhmmm… as far as this article is concerned we are all victims and guilt of this emotional set up and black mail… hmmm!!! the thins we do for love…

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      Aries
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      For me, I will never tell my partner that she is mad.

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      John Adeleke
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      Its sad when someone uses your feelings and emotions towards them as a way to get to you… using it to extort and abuse you…

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      Chichi
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      another one is never use a breakup threat to persuade your partner in doing what they dont wanna do

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      Nne
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      I totally agree with the experts. Unfortunately, a lot of women unconsciously control and pressurize their husbands into doing what they believe is correct because they always want things in their own ways.

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    • #20433
      Kufekpo
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      This post have shown that a lot of men have been inadvertently emotional blackmailed by their wives.

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