What Would You Do You If Your Wife Is Infertile?

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August 20, 2021 at 10:01 am #13005

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What Would You Do You If Your Wife Is Infertile?

Sometimes, I do wonder if actually, the couples do understand that part in a statement they make in the course of exchanging a marital vow – that they will love each other to the end for the better or worst. What do you do if your wife is infertile or cannot have kids after being together for a long time, will you still love her?

Will you discuss options of adoption, fostering or remaining childless and decide which one works for you both as a couple?

I recall an incredible couple in our church who were married for many years without the fruit of the womb. After several attempts, prayers and undergoing several medical examinations and procedures, the wife didn’t take in. Maybe, out of pressure from the husband’s mother to get another wife, the man put another lady in the family way. That singular act, of course, put the wife in an uncomfortable position. She fought her husband and the man decided to move in with the other lady. Quite Sad! Right?

If having a child that is of your own blood is more important than the love you share then your marriage is never strong enough to raise children anyway.

If you find yourself in such a predicament, what would you do? Please let’s hear your thoughts in the comment box.

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- June 12, 2021 at 3:19 pm #13029
  Ronkie babe
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  Checking the cause of the infertility should be the first step to take. Then source for the solution and give your total support as the husband.
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- August 20, 2021 at 1:39 pm #19917
  John Adeleke
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  we shall both have patience, seek medical help and continue to pray or we could even adopt and life goes on… no stress
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- August 20, 2021 at 1:44 pm #19923
  Bernard
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  watch and pray and like the case of Abraham and Sarah, God will definitely hear our cries and come to our aid at such times
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- August 20, 2021 at 1:50 pm #19929
  Chichi
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  be patient with her from a woman’ perspective and you both should continue praying to God and one day for certain your prayers would be answered and you’ll be blessed with wonderful babies
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- August 20, 2021 at 1:53 pm #19933
  Okey_14_boi
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  science has made things like this an obsolete problem, there are lots of medical tryouts you can carry out to increase your chances… so its better to see your doctor first before undergoing any complex treatment or intake
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- August 20, 2021 at 2:08 pm #19949
  Aries
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  I strongly believe while couples are courting, the issue of infertility should be discussed and a decision is taken so that if the lady has an issue of not given birth, the pressure will not be mounted on her.
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- August 20, 2021 at 3:21 pm #19962
  Nne
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  While I strongly believe in prayer as a devoted Christian, I think before anyone wants to settle down, there is a need for the fellow to go for some medical tests to ascertain the level of health challenges. Armed with such information, one can know the next line of action to take.
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