What Would You Do You If Your Wife Is Infertile?
Sometimes, I do wonder if actually, the couples do understand that part in a statement they make in the course of exchanging a marital vow – that they will love each other to the end for the better or worst. What do you do if your wife is infertile or cannot have kids after being together for a long time, will you still love her?
Will you discuss options of adoption, fostering or remaining childless and decide which one works for you both as a couple?
I recall an incredible couple in our church who were married for many years without the fruit of the womb. After several attempts, prayers and undergoing several medical examinations and procedures, the wife didn’t take in. Maybe, out of pressure from the husband’s mother to get another wife, the man put another lady in the family way. That singular act, of course, put the wife in an uncomfortable position. She fought her husband and the man decided to move in with the other lady. Quite Sad! Right?
If having a child that is of your own blood is more important than the love you share then your marriage is never strong enough to raise children anyway.
If you find yourself in such a predicament, what would you do? Please let’s hear your thoughts in the comment box.
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