Work for that Relationship to Work
People in a relationship generally have one issue or the other to contend with at one point in time or the other.
You may not know it until you are told.
That you’re having one at the moment doesn’t mean both of you aren’t meant to be together.
Well, you are having the issue because you need to be together.
What about that?
If an issue isn’t because of fundamental factors that may rock the boat of your marriage later on, it may not be that you need to go your separate ways.
What then are fundamental issues?
It happens that when you both stay to face the challenge, you will, more often than not, come out stronger together.
Get the seed of this message: there will always be one issue or the other but don’t make throwing in the towel your first option.
The reason is simple: wherever you go again, you will be meeting a human who is also imperfect.
I reemphasise that where the issues are not fundamental, such as abuses, intolerably bad attitude, or other fundamental issues that put both of you different paths, you could seek to find solutions.
I need to note also that this is easier when people are ready to change by themselves or are teachable.
Teachability makes people that initially appeared incorrigible awesome again.
If they are teachable and you love them, stay and work out your love life together.
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