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    Why Do Men Of Nowadays Insist On Pregnancy Before Marriage?

    Pregnancy

    Marriage has traditionally come before pregnancy, but there appears to be a shift in the tide in recent years, with people opting for pregnancy before marriage.

    Based on the subject, a young lady described the horror she went through in the hands of her fiancée. According to her, she was threatened, and she chose to end the relationship since it occurred to her that her guy was more interested in having children than in her.

    Babies are, without a doubt, a gift from God. However, before the coming together of a man and a woman, the couple must first love one other before starting a family. Because of a woman’s dread of being childless, many men will place her in a family situation first to establish her fertility before marrying her, which goes against the Biblical prohibition of defiling the bed before marriage.

    More intriguingly, many mothers of would-be husbands put undue pressure on their sons to find a lady first before arranging a marriage, because some of them cannot afford to bear their grandkids.

    For various people, different strokes are used. However, it appears that everything is a matter of personal preference. While some people believe there is nothing wrong with getting pregnant before marriage, others disagree, for various reasons. What would you do if you were in this situation?

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    • #17233
      Seyibabs8
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      Maybe because they are scared of the woman not to enter the house fully and not get pregnant.

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    • #17241
      Nne
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      Good question. My brother what my eyes see concerning this issue, my mouth can’t talk…

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    • #17251
      Bernard
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      men most of these gals have used abortions to finish their wombs, its better to be sure than sorry

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    • #17274
      Chichi
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      they dont have sense, some African men would make u regret that u are an African gan!

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    • #17275
      Tolu
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      because all girls dn spoil finish…. make she no be empty barrrel… lol

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    • #17314
      Tobex
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      It depends on the way the two of them sees things

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    • #17322
      John Adeleke
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      well it depends on the tribe, this is mostly common among yorubas and some ibos

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    • #17341
      Okey_14_boi
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      since birds have learnt to fly without perching, hunters have learnt to shoot without missing.. get the point yet??

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      Kufekpo
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      Everything in life is all about risk including marriage. I think some men do not want to take some risks when it comes to women’s fertility. For that reason, they will insist on pregnancy first.

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    • #17373
      Ray
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      I think this is where the clerics should come in. It is the onus of pastors to take their stand on this discourse, by telling all the brothers in their churches that no wedding will take place in their church with pregnancy.

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