Why Are You Not Married In Your ’30s?
Basking in the Biblical injunction that he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and will obtain favour from God has made the voluntary coming together of two people possible to enjoy a lifetime fellowship, have a destiny partner and ultimately raise godly offspring.
But in this regard, a delay is anything that puts off your marital fulfilment in life. The question is, why are you not married in the ’30s? This post carefully outlined four reasons for which people experience a delay in marriage.
People allow their past experiences to stop them from getting married. But the truth is, there is almost nothing you can do about your past than to forget it. Whether you like it or not, you can neither drink it away nor smoke it away.
Even if they took your virginity, you still have your dignity. There is still a glorious destiny ahead of you. Move away from your past and when you change your location, change your orientation.
We are in an era where men are living dangerously. Singles are busy rehearsing marriage and living irresponsibly. No wonder the great writer, Valentine Uchechukwu Ndukwu said that you cannot sleep as a blunder in your singlehood and wake up wonder in marriage. To this writer, “marriage is spelt as responsibility, which means response to ability”. One’s lifestyle causes a delay in getting married.
Marriage is for the decisive. And indecision here is your inability to prayerfully decide on what you want. Every man or woman suffering from indecision slows down.
Someone said it’s paralysis by analysis. But in conquering this, you must know what you want and be clear about it. Take a decision and allow other preferences to die.
4. Timing and Sensitivity
If you are insensitive to your time, you would miss your season. Every relationship before its time sponsors heartbreak. Sadly, marrying before and after time is trouble. Marrying in time is right.
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