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    Three Ways God Shows You Who To Marry – Apostle Joshua Selman


    Deciding whom you’ll marry is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make and will affect you extensively the whole rest of your life. Given the magnitude of this decision, it’s only natural to want reassurance that what you’re doing is the right thing. The beautiful thing is that God does guide and direct our steps.

    However, Apostle Joshua Selman, a Gospel minister, Christian author, instrumentalist, conference speaker and televangelist during his teaching exposed three proven ways God can show you who to marry. While it is true that the Lord directs our steps, every person has to make that call based upon their own communication and relationship with God.

    The Three ways God can show you who to marry is as following:

    1. Genuine godly desire and passion

    Not everyone is going to see a vision about his wife and it doesn’t mean you are not spiritual. God can plant a genuine desire and passion for a lady in your heart. When this happens, you need to be responsible and act maturely. You don’t just walk up to a lady and say “you are my wife”.

    There is a due season for everything so God can use a simple, godly desire. If you are a man of God or a great person, don’t use your position to intimidate ladies. This type of passion is good because it will help sustain the love even during difficulties.

    2. The prophetic

    God has also positioned the prophetic to help the man locate the woman. The prophetic here means either prophecy or the ministry of the Holy Spirit in your life. Take note that God has not ordained you as a spiritual matchmaker for anyone. Whether you see a vision or have a dream about yourself or somebody else, it must be handled with utmost maturity because marriage is a great mystery. Be very careful when it has to do with giving people prophecy.

    Read Also: 10 Signs You’ve Found Your Soulmate

    Never neglect the grace of the prophetic. Prophecy must be discerned and balanced properly. That you see a lady in a dream does not mean you must marry her. Different factors such as alignment, tribal differences and parental approval must come together.

    3. Divine connection

    The divine connection does happen. That is how we meet destiny helpers. One of the strongest ways couples are connected together is by serving in the house of God. So as you pray, say “lord, connect me divinely.”

    Having read this article, if you want to take the bold step of searching for your wife or husband, the best thing you have to do is to be sensitive and take these three important steps seriously. Your spouse is coming your way!

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