Ladies, this is what happens when you date/marry a “hard guy”

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    Ladies, this is what happens when you date/marry a “hard guy”when you dateIf you ever find yourself dating someone who thinks it’s weak for a man to show emotion, be prepared for the following. Getting involved with someone, especially with the intent of going all the way, should be a no-holds-barred affair.

    So, in an ideal world, there should be no suppressed feelings or unspoken emotions when you date and intend to marry

    However, for some guys, particularly the inexpressive [called hard Guys], this is a serious problem they can’t seem to overcome.
    Many men have been labeled as animals that hold back emotions and fail to really examine and express romantic impulses they have at various times, even times when they have partners, whether as a control mechanism, a defense technique, or simply out of plain cluelessness.

    If you ever find yourself dating a ‘hard guy,’ these are some of the pitfalls you can expect in such a relationship:

    1. Confusion

    Confusion, misunderstandings, and continual misinterpretation of his intentions are some of the issues you’ll face if you date a man who is inexpressive and finds it difficult to express himself.

    In a situation, you may think one thing while your partner is thinking something else entirely unrelated to their true feelings about the issue.
    This almost always leads to misunderstandings and far too many unnecessary fights, which can derail a healthy relationship.

    2.Unappreciated feelings

    Women have a reputation for being readily swayed by words, particularly if they like you already.
    Words, especially complimentary ones, are also useful in keeping a woman feeling treasured, appreciated, and desired

    Now imagine having a guy who never gasses you up in any way, rarely assuages your doubts, or reassure you of his undying affection for you – sad, yes?

    3. Someone else.

    When you’re fed up with your inarticulate partner’s inability to convey sentiments or provide validation, you might seek refuge in anything else.  It might even be another person. If someone else begins to fill the void, you and your partner will gradually drift apart.
    When this occurs, the end of the relationship is visible on the horizon.

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    4. Communication suffers

    Many women enjoy talking and expressing their emotions.
    If your partner isn’t expressive, you won’t be able to communicate in situations where you should. When one spouse pushes and the other pulls, communication fails.
    In other words, it’s a problem when one spouse attempts to initiate and the other doesn’t reciprocate or does it poorly all of the time.

    5. A boring relationship

    It’s highly possible that your relationship with him will be uninteresting if he enjoys developing inexpressive hard guys even with you as his girlfriend.
    We’ve already discussed how much fun it is when both partners have an incredible sense of humor and can tell and receive jokes.



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