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    30 things to say to your wife when she is angry with you (Part 2)

    We continue from the first part of the same topic regarding 30 things to say to your wife when she is angry with you (Part 1). 

    So whenever your wife is angry with you what are those things you can say to calm her down and make her grin from ear to ear;

     

    11. “We are stronger when we work together. Please don’t get furious with me.”:

    Remind your wife that you’re in this relationship as a team, and a team is stronger when everyone is available to fill their roles. Despite what some partners believe, wives do not always appreciate ranting and raving, except when they are in the mood. So, if saying sorry hasn’t worked for you, try this and see how it goes.

    30 things to say to your wife when she is angry with you (Part 2): “We are stronger when we work together. Please don't get furious with me
    30 things to say to your wife when she is angry with you (Part 2): “We are stronger when we work together. Please don’t get furious with me

     

    12. “I’d never intentionally [take you for granted].” Please give me another chance to show you that this was a mistake.”:

    You can tell your wife if you made a mistake that was misconstrued as something more serious, and hope that she believes you. However, she might not be so generous the next time it happens, so don’t use this line unless you intend to follow your word.

     

    13. “From the bottom of my heart, I apologize for bringing you distress. Please pardon me?”:

    If your wife is upset with you and an apology like this doesn’t make a difference, it’s usually because you’ve overplayed your hand and it’s no longer valid. That, or you’re no longer as important to her as you once were.

     

    14. “Not talking to you for the past two hours has been excruciating. I don’t want to live like this any longer, and I’d go to any length to avoid it.”:

    Has it been difficult to stay without speaking with the person you care about? Tell her that, and your devoted wife would get back on good terms with you. Even if words are just words and what you do with them afterwards is what counts, removing the “tough guy act” is an excellent place to start.

     

    15. “I’m happy you’re furious at me because it shows you care,”.:

    Getting furious at someone is seen to be an indication of emotional investment. While this does not necessarily equate to caring, it’s likely that this is the source of your wife’s complaints. This isn’t a justification to continue irritating her, but it is a charming fact to use against her this one time.

     

    16. “I’m not going anywhere, and neither are you. Remember, for better or worse?

    Remember that you are married already, then gently reminding your wife of your commitment to her relationship can just melt her heart. Women seek a partner with whom they can share the good times in life as well as someone who can console them when they are angry or upset.

    If the problem is that she hasn’t been feeling like your number one lately, assuring her that you’re in it for the long haul will work even better.

    "I'm not going anywhere, and neither are you. Remember, for better or worse? 
    “I’m not going anywhere, and neither are you. Remember, for better or worse?

     

    17. “I know I’m to blame for whatever happened. “How can I make it up to you?”:

    If she refuses to tell you what you did wrong but continues to appear enraged, it’s probably best to just say you were wrong and she was correct. Then, by asking her what you can do, make a solution to solve it.

    Read Also: How to deal with a breakup

    18. “I despise that we are fighting. “Can we already kiss and makeup?”:

    After all, the nicest part of a couple’s dispute is getting to make up. Have you ever observed that whatever you do with your wife after you’ve resolved a fight is generally more intense? You could be seeing each other in the eyes and suddenly feel a rush of butterflies all over your body.

    So, if her rage has irritated you as well, all hope is not yet gone. Experts suggest you can kiss and make up with a little perspective-taking, empathy, and a lot of communication, among other things.

     

    19. “I apologize for inflicting such pain on you, and I pledge to do better next time.”:

    If you’re not a romantic, a simple acknowledgement of guilt, followed by an apology and a promise to do better, would enough. Humour and lovely words aren’t always enough to make things better. If whatever you did to irritate your wife was significant, it’s a good idea to let her know you’re aware of it and really sorry.

    “I apologize for inflicting such pain on you, and I pledge to do better next time.”
    “I apologize for inflicting such pain on you, and I pledge to do better next time.”

     

    20. “You are everything to me, and I hope you remember that even in difficult times.”:

    The genuine test of love is whether or not it flows when things are going well, as well as whether or not it stays strong when your spouse isn’t. Tell her she’ll always be your special someone, and that you hope she sees you in the same light. However, you should not use this to manipulate someone’s emotions. If you truly mistreated her, make a proper apology before stating this.

     

    Click here to read Part 3: 30 things to say to your wife when she is angry with you (Part 3)

     

    Read Also: 6 Reasons why your spouse/girlfriend may say she needs some space? (Part 1)

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