SHOCKING THING MY HUSBAND DID WHEN I ACCUSED HIM OF BEEN STINGY
I have been accusing my husband of been stingy and not generous for Months. At first he did not take me serious but when it became a constant issue he tried to explain to me but I thought he was telling lies.
I continue to accuse and abuse him everyday about not spending for me and on me and not been responsible in taking care of me and my Children.
I am a Teacher my salary is not much but my husband works in a nice place earning good salary so I thought he should spend on me and give me a Queen treatment always.
My Husband will not allow us to go nice restaurant or shop lavishly, he is really pissing me up. I started calling him ‘’Triple Honour’’. At first he did not understand the meaning of triple honour until I told him. Triple honour means he is stingy in a triple way. Why He studied economics, he is Ijebu, his Mother is Igbo. When I told him this he was really annoyed. It he did not say anything.
By the end of Last Month he did something unusual, he withdrew his entire salary and brought it Home. He gave his pay slip and I realize he earns a little above 200k truly, he had been telling me this I never believe him. He gave me the Money and told me I will be the financial head of the family for at least a Month, I will be the one that will dispense the Money as we need it.
So anytime there is a need he will say go and meet Mummy. I kept the Money somewhere and began to dispense it, I was really shocked by what he faces every Month
We hen we got to the Petrol station he turned to me, I paid 12k (I had never pay this in my life) I checked the meter again it was 10k. I bought this twice in the Month making 24k
I gave 1,500 to our 3 Children daily as they go to School, 500 each, Making 7,500 per week 30k per Month.
Mechanic came I paid 15k, they he said something is still not ok, he said he will call somebody at Ladipo(I was hearing that for the first time) they said it was 25k, I had to pay and Labour 5k, I also paid 15k to buy Electricity, I had to go and load it myself, I did not know how to low data on the prepaid meter, my husband does all this, but I have to do it.
I sent 15k each to my Mum and his Mum as their Monthly stipend. (I had bee fighting him for sending 15k only to my Mum, now I understand.
I used 30k to buy food stuff, water and other things needed at home.
I paid 15k for Child regular drug, she has health issue, we had to buy this Monthly.
Yesterday my Husband told me he will need 30k for the Monthly contribution he is making for the House rent, he said I should make it ready by the time he comes back from the office. I accounted the Money remaining where I kept it today, I have only a balance of about 20k and today is just 24th of the Month, I was baffled, I thought I lost Money, I calculated and recalculated. I am still in shock, I can not raise the 30k he is asking for, this is serious. I thought he was stingy to me and extravagant outside, I was really foolish to think that way.
Am waiting for him to come to tell him the money remains only 20k, I don’t know what his reaction will be. Who says Men no Dey try, them Dey try oo.
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