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    Learn How To Rekindle Romance Into Your Relationship



    The need for romance in a relationship cannot be overemphasized. In fact romance is a necessary spice in a relationship. Every man or woman wants to feel the sense of romance in a relationship. You must not be financially buoyant to be romantic. Doing little things in a special way is an act of romance.

    What would be a reason partners lose their passion for each other and stop being sexually intimate is a pursuer-distance pattern that develops over time? A recent research has shown that thousands of couples discovered partners that get stuck in this pattern in the first few years of marriage have more than an 80% chance of divorcing in the first four to five years.

    In this article, you will learn 7 ways how to rekindle your romance into your relationship in a hope of having a workable and healthy relationship that last.

    1.    Focus on affectionate touch:

    Offer to give your partner a back or shoulder rub. People associate foreplay with sexual intercourse, but affectionate touch is a powerful way to demonstrate and rekindle passion even if you are not a touchy-feely person.

    Wake up to a day as if it was the first time you were alone with your partner. Greet him or her enthusiastically. Sit and just look lovely at him or her for a few moments. Touch his or her face lovingly. Let them feel love and sensation from your touch.

    2.    Change your pattern of initiating sex:

    Love making is a bond that keeps husband and wife together. It is also an act of romance. Do something differently to spark up the romance between you two. Create a cozy environment with a nicely dim lit room, soft music and a glass of something smooth. Make love not only to your partner body but to his or her mind too.

    Maybe you are denying your partner or coming on too strong. Avoid criticizing each other and stop the “blame game.” Mix things up to end the power struggle. For example, distancers may want to practice initiating sex more often and pursuers try to find ways to tell their partner “you’re sexy,” in subtle ways while avoiding critique and demands for closeness.


    3.    Call your Partner unexpectedly:

    Calling your partner unexpectedly in middle of a hectic day, just to tell them how much you love them or you are thinking about them, is one major way of bringing romance back into your relationship. Most couples can’t remember when last they told their partner “I Love you”. Develop the habit of reaffirming the love you have for your partner, by constantly telling them.

    4.    Watch Movies or Play Games Together:

    One way in which you can spend quality time with your partner is through watching movies or playing games together. I suggest you watch romantic movies, it have a way of creating a romantic scenes in your mind. Enjoy your partner company with good conversations while watching the movies or playing games.

    5.    Hold hands more often:

    According to expert, holding of hands, hugging, and touching can release oxytocin causing a calming sensation. Studies show it’s also released during sexual orgasm. Additionally, physical affection reduces stress hormones – lowering daily levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

    6.     Make sex a priority:

    Set the mood for intimacy before TV or work dulls your passion. A light meal along with your favorite music and wine can set the stage for great sex.

    The good news is that allowing your partner to influence you can reignite the spark you once enjoyed. In fact, it reminds us that friendship is the glue that can hold a marriage together.

    7.    Take  bath together:

    It is advisable for married couple to bath together. By the virtue of marriage you are one. Why can’t you bath together to spark the romance in your marriage? If you share the same room and bathroom I see no reason why you can’t bath together.

    Make your partner to always yearn to be around you, by doing things that will bring back romance into your relationship. Doing these things mentioned will help you immensely. Romance is the life of every successful relationship.


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