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    Sam P

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    Ladies pls advice her Biko
    ADVICE NEEDED>>>>>>>>>>

    I was dating a guy who promised to marry me, he travelled
    abroad for greener pasture, after some time, there was no
    more communication, years passed, days passed, there was
    no sign of him.
    Since I was 22, now it’s six years, I am no longer getting
    younger, I decided to move on. Recently I met a guy that
    became so close to me, we are set for marriage this Easter,
    and I am happy I met him, though not rich but hard-
    working, last week I got a bank credit alert on my phone of
    amount I never dreamt of, I scrolled up and down the sms to
    make sure it was for me, what amazed me was the
    depositor’s name, Stanley my Ex-boy friend that travelled
    years back that we lost communication deposited N320m
    into my account. Did I just called him my Ex? That I can’t
    tell cos we didn’t break up at the first place, we just got
    separated by distance, as I was still pondering about it my
    Mum called me from village some days ago that Stanley
    checked on me at home, she gave him my cell number and
    my address. Oh gush!!! my mum did? Why did she? or
    should I be happy she did? many things on my
    head.Stanley called me yesterday that he’s coming to my
    place next weekend, he said many things on the phone that
    I was speechless, he said I should remember the promise
    we made to each other which is the major reason he
    travelled abroad, that he’s finally back to fulfil the promise,
    that the money he transferred to my account is to start
    making arrangement for our wedding, i should find a choice
    location to buy a house for us, he can’t wait to take me to
    the alter.
    I’m confused, Chidi and I have scheduled to wed this Easter,
    what should I do now?
    1. Should I follow Stanley and abandon Chidi?
    2. Should I say no to Stanley, what about the money in my
    account, what should I do with it?
    3. If I go for Stanley, will it be because of the money or
    because of the love we shared?
    4. Gals what do you think on this situation and if you were
    in her shoe, what would you do?
    5. Guys what will u advice her to do..


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