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last updated by Ray 1 year ago
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    My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Please Advice

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    Right now, I don’t know what to do as my relationship with my fiancée is about to hit the rock.

    I fell in love with Chioma the first time I saw her and wanted her to be my girlfriend. I ran into her one cool evening as I was returning from a friend’s house. I moved in close proximity to her and greeted her. Her friendly answer encouraged me to take my shot. I invited her out, and she agreed.

    Chioma and I have been together for six years, and I’m confident she’s the one for me, so I decided to propose to her late last year if only to demonstrate that her place in my life isn’t taken for granted. We’ve been through hell for each other, even when there was nothing she could do for me, but thank God I’m back to work today.

    Now, it appears that I have been battling to keep the relationship with her for sometimes now because we have been cohabiting since I returned from NYSC. Her demeanour and attitude had abruptly shifted. Unlike before, she will continually lock her phone. When you ask her why I’m going to touch her phone, she gets irritated and asks why I want to touch her phone.

    During the day, her phone will be on silent mode, so if it rings, she will decide who to pike the call so I won’t hear and know. We can’t watch a movie as partners because she’s terrified of who’ll call next since she knows I’ll punch her. She’ll be shivering if I manage to pick up her phone call.

    We’ve had a lot of problems as a result of her succumbing to diversions; I’m wary of talking, and despite the fact that I’ve beaten her, she still refuses to change. Instead of cheating on me, I told her. I’ve made a lot of sacrifices for this lady. Just think about it. I’m the one who is helping her with her education; her family isn’t helping her enough because they don’t believe in education and just care about business.

    She doesn’t want to lose me because we’ve been through a lot together, so she wants to keep me as a future spouse while still playing games outside. What crime did I commit by going to serve so that I could return and make things better for us, because that’s when she was spoiled.

    I’ve resolved to chase her away; when I’m with her, she’s performing this nonsense; what will happen if I’m not there? Can I put my faith in her?

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    • #18528
      Chichi
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      hmm, this is drastic, first u abuse her physically, secondly it seems she doesnt love u anymore, just pack up the relationship… its too toxic for u both

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    • #18540
      Bernard
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      the whole thing has come to a boring end for her, just let her go and if she comes back then shes urs to keep

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    • #18571
      Seyibabs8
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      you better pray to God

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    • #18588
      Nne
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      While I will not subscribe to snooping on people’s phones, living a double life and being unfaithful in a relationship is not acceptable.

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    • #18599
      John Adeleke
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      well you have made your decision hope u can live with it.. u both should have seeked the face of God in your marriage

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    • #18600
      Tolu
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      hmmmmmm..

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    • #18607
      Kufekpo
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      My take on this case is that you should leave the girl. Showing such an attitude goes to show that the girl will not be faithful if you evntually marry her.

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    • #18646
      Okey_14_boi
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      what rock did it hit? olumo rock or zuma rock… well u should have built the rock on the rock of ages that never fails

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    • #18660
      Ray
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      Some Igbo girls are like that. If you don’t a lady officially, she believes you are not her husband. She will still go ahead to do something behind your back. It’s heartbreaking.

      Take your decision on her now before it becomes too late.

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