From our conversation, his first marriage failed due to immaturity on both sides. It became very difficult for him to re-marry because he wanted a help mate. A career/business / market-wise woman that will help and build his life.

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He told me the problem he is facing today as a result of his first marriage, and the ease in his life will be determined by his next marriage. He told me he will not settle for the less and I believed him.

He had a lot of conversations with me about his life, although I never told him about myself. I just gave him some advice and prayed for him not to make another bombshell of a mistake.

Someone recommend him to a very young girl which he seems to like. Paid her dowry – traditional marriage in a hurry and brought her home as a married couple.

To him, he has caught a fresh young fish.

When this young woman came, he was so curious about me which I seem to understand. One day I told her not to worry if I don’t give her attention or always converse with her the way she want. I made her understand I don’t speak much in person unless it is very important. I did this just to put her at ease.

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THE PROBLEM

The problem right now, is my neighbour is having a serious headache. I mean extreme headache because the girl he married is still behaving like a child.

This my neighbour just realizes that he has made another huge bombshell. When he first brought her home after the dowry, I myself was secretly concerned because the girl was just too small and immature for him. I mean too young to be his daughter’s age mate.

Yesterday he was shouting and willing to lay hand on her or send her back home. He married her without courtship for the very wrong reasons below.

●He married her because she is young and innocent.
●He married her because he needed someone that will be under his total influence and control.
● He married her because of total submission from a woman.
●He married her because she has orange breasts. We men like female breasts too much. We just love to suck female breasts and she has nice standing fan boobs.

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Right now he is seeing the opposite and not the character he thought he paid for. Instead of character or fine personality, the man foolishly lusted after hot breasts.

I tried to communicate with the young babe, letting her know she need to be smart and acknowledge herself as now a married young woman. She is no longer in her parent’s house but in her own house.

Her response to me shows that she is just a typical village girl who was convinced into marriage by her parents. She blames her father.

I am secretly concerned about her well-being.

My only secret worry right is that her hubby should not lay hands on her, by slapping her. I don’t like when a man beats a woman.

She is very young and small like that a 17 years old girl.

MEN will always go for curves and breasts and not for mature minds or character