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  • #11687
    Uche Ogbona
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    I live happily with my husband in a room apartment.

    My sister who just finished her First Degree at Osun State University. While awaiting NYSC call up, she secured a job in Lagos. So I discussed with my husband if he would allow her stay with us for the main time. Thank god my husband agreed.

    She came and we are all living peacefully. We go to our individual offices and return at night. My husband and I sleep on the bed while my sister sleeps on the couch.

    But at midnight, my husband always demand for sex, I told him it’s not ideal to have sex while my sister is with us, she would hear our moaning while having sex,  but he wouldn’t stop disturbing me at night.

    I hope he doesn’t look elsewhere to satisfy his sexual urge. I am scared of loosing my husband to another woman. But why can’t he just wait for a while (till my sister leaves for NYSC) if he truly loves me.

    Please what can I do to satisfy my husband without sex?

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    • #11738
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      For how long will you deny your husband of your body because your sister is with you? You better wise up

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    • #11739
      Christie
      Participant

      Shebi your sister is asleep. Do it silently na

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    • #11740
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Christie, But my husband doesn’t know how to do the silent type.

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    • #11741
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, may I first know how long your sister will stay with you

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    • #11742
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      FM, for just 9 months, less than a year

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    • #11743
      FM
      Participant

      9 months?! Agh, that’s too long o. You said she’s a graduate, she should be mature to occasionally excuse you and your husband na. Haba!

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    • #11744
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      9 months is too long truly. We men are not wired to hold back our sexual urge like you women o

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    • #11746
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Inumidun, so all this while that my husband is travelling for months, how is he holding the urge?

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    • #11747
      Christie
      Participant

      Men! Men!! Nothing they want to do for love. Can’t the husband pay the sacrifice?

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    • #11748
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Sacrifice ko, sacrifice ni?! What sort of sacrifice is that. You betther send your sister back to village abi where did she come from sef

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    • #11749
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Sulaimon, noted! So my sister should loose her good job because my husband failed to reason with me

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    • #11750
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, this is not the matter of your husband reasoning with you or not. You better save your marriage before your husband start doing…

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    • #11751
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      FM, …before my husband start doing what? He dares not

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    • #11753
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, time will tell

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    • #11754
      Christie
      Participant

      Uche, My sister, maybe you should tell your sister to excuse you for some minutes at night, so that you could please your husband. Am I making sense?

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    • #11755
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Christie, you try small. but me, I will not take excuse before having my way o, for my house?!

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    • #11756
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      I don’t think you can even find a man who can stay that long with his wife without having sex with her

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    • #11757
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Inumidun, thank you. It is very impossible

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    • #11758
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      Sulaimon, abi na. not even 6 months

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    • #11759
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      So you guys are telling me to start suspecting my husband anytime he travels for months

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    • #11761
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Uche, me I no say that o

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    • #11762
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      Uche, don’t put words into our mouths, we are only telling you some facts about men

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    • #11763
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, I will advice you not to proof stubborn, let your sister go, she will return when you secure a bigger space.

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    • #11764
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      FM, thank you. I thought about that but she has some bills to settle, and since I can’t support her financially, I think this is an opportunity for me to play my role

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    • #11765
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Uche, play your dirty role and loose your husband to a slay queen

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    • #11766
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      Uche, it’s a good role but not at the detriment of your marriage

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    • #11767
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, some marriages have been broken because the wives are choosing their siblins over their husbands

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    • #11768
      Christie
      Participant

      Uhm! Me, I am even confused now. Will you guys help her to pay her bills

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    • #11772
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Uche, what do you want to do?

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    • #11773
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      Uche, yes tell us. It seems you want to ignore our advice here

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    • #11774
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Christie, thanks for your feelings. None of the guys chooses to reason in that direction

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    • #11777
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      No be only reason! Make she find work go another place na.

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    • #11778
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      Uche, let her source for accommodation from a colleague for the main time

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    • #11779
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, be very careful o, the step you take could make or mar your marriage o

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    • #11781
      Christie
      Participant

      Uche, Me, I will suggest you have a way to please your husband too. You may use a curtain to divide the room. I pray God will enlarge your coast

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    • #11782
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Christie, Amen. Thank you my sister. You really understand feel my trauma

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    • #11783
      FM
      Participant

      Uche, I guess you are enjoying your sister’s company, so you don’t want her to leave

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    • #11784
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      FM, correct! you be correct guy. na so women dey do if dem see dem siblins. dem go forget say dem get husband

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    • #11787
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      FM, yes, I experience it too, whenever my wife sees her siblings she unconsciously forgets that she’s married

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    • #11788
      Christie
      Participant

      You guys are funny. so, because I’m married now, I shouldn’t show my family love

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    • #11789
      FM
      Participant

      Christie, your priority is now your husband. so cherish him more than anybody

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    • #11791
      Christie
      Participant

      But I see my husband everyday, I play with him everyday. So, he should give me the little time i have to spend with my siblings when they come visiting

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    • #11793
      FM
      Participant

      That’s true, but make sure nothing take the night hour from your husband o. Lols

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    • #11794
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      FM, Lol! Na that night hour be the koko

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    • #11795
      Inumidun
      Moderator

      hahahahaha, that’s is the holy hour

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    • #11796
      Christie
      Participant

      Smiles… what hour are you guys talking about

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    • #11797
      FM
      Participant

      Christie, you know na, that period your husband touches you at night. that you form before finally complying…

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    • #11798
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      I can’t stop laughing…

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    • #11799
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      even Uche understand!!! why you com dey deny oga his right

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    • #11800
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Sulaimon, don’t go there, I don’t deny him of his right, situation warrants it

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    • #11801
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      God punish that situation wey wan take my food, my koko from me

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    • #11802
      Christie
      Participant

      Sulaimon, Uhn! your own too much

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    • #11804
      Christie
      Participant

      I pity your wife

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    • #11805
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Na so, I be correct man. I no dey hide am

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    • #11806
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      Christie, don’t mind sulaimon.

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    • #11807
      Christie
      Participant

      Sulaimon, what if your wife is nursing a baby, won’t you wait?

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    • #11808
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Christie, any nursing wey don pass 3 months, na wahala be that

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    • #11809
      Christie
      Participant

      Sulaimon, then you are ready for new baby every year

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    • #11810
      Sulaimon Sule
      Participant

      Christie, then what is family planning for?

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    • #11826
      Uche Ogbona
      Participant

      I want to say a BIG THANK YOU to you all. I’ll definitely take to you advices and give you feed back. God bless you all

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