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    Okey_14_boi
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    My friend is in a toxic relationship – Please help

    My friend is in a toxic relationship - Please help
    My friend is in a toxic relationship – Please help

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    One of my pals has always had a sour connection with her spouse, and I’m having trouble with her. They’re both wonderful people, but when they get together, they’re like dynamite and not in a good way.

    They both drink too much and fight, and one of them always walks out or is thrown out.

    The trouble is, whenever they’re having a bad time, she completely withdraws from me and I never see her. She ignores my calls and emails, and then when they reconcile and everything is back to normal, she tells me what a jerk he is and how miserable her life is.

    I’ve tried to express my thoughts to her in the past, and I’ve been quite supportive – both practically and emotionally – but I’m at a loss for words. If I’m being honest, I’m upset that she just vanishes when things between them are bad and I haven’t heard from her in weeks.

    How can I assist her if she refuses to communicate with me?

    It’s starting to grate on my nerves since I’m not sure why we’re still friends – good friends are there for you in good times and bad, and you don’t just abandon someone for weeks on end, right?

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    • #19353
      Nne
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      The best advice you can give to that friend is, telling her to walk away from that toxic relationship, if not she will suffer in a long run.

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    • #19364
      John Adeleke
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      you yourself from my perspective are a good friend and you have tried all your possible best to be there for your friends, i wish i had a friend like u in  my life that’ll be watching my back

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    • #19367
      Chichi
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      your friend clearly needs therapy and she needs to run away from that toxic boyfriend as fast as possible

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    • #19372
      Bernard
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      this is sad, most ladies and guys are involved in relationships like this… they cant move on and they are even enjoying the relationship too,…. she needs help and family to come to her aid

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    • #19373
      Okey_14_boi
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      This is a case of a mental thing… In her mind she can’t seem to do away with the memories of him and the toxicity of the union plays a major part in connecting to her abusive pas

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      Kufekpo
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      As a relationship expert would advise, run away from abusive and toxic relationship. It kills.

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