I met Tolani, while I was serving in a state called Abeokuta, Nigeria and we have been good and okay with our relationship hoping to get married.
As of the early year 2020, we agreed to have our wedding in September 2020 unknowingly to us that a global pandemic called Coronavirus will hijack the year and this affected our plans along the line.
25th of August 2020, I called Tolani to tell her I was at the Hospital Yesterday and it was confirmed I have to undergo a Hernia operation urgently possibly in 3 days, as I have reportedly told her about the pains before not knowing it will result in surgical Operation.
To the Glory of God, the surgery was successful but the challenging thing now is what the doctor said I should do.” The Doctor told me that I need to confirm if I can still impregnate a lady or not due to some damages this might have caused to my reproductive organs. He also said the possibility of me impregnating a lady is a 50/50 chance.
Our major challenge now is that as a Christian If I get involved in Sex, It’s a Sin and my fiancée fear now, is what if we get marry and am unable to impregnate her?
We have been on this for some time now and it’s really challenging, kindly help us with your advice on what to do as we still love ourselves dearly.
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