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    Why Do Men Have Problem Marrying A woman With Children?

    Marrying A woman With Children

    It is obvious that most young men will not marrying a woman with children. I’m referring to people between the ages of 18 and 35. Even if they have a kid, some men may not state openly that they are unlikely to marry a woman with a child (not everyone is Joseph, who married a pregnant Mary). That is where the hypocrisy lies.

    But it is not the topic at hand. The topic is about women who have children out of wedlock with other men, then break up with those men and are left with babies to be raised.

    Before you start chewing my head off, I know that some guys have married women who have children with another man – and sometimes ladies who have children from more than one man. Surprisingly, women will marry a man who has as many children from as many different women.

    Suffice it to say here. The discussion is about women who have children with other men out of wedlock, and then end up breaking up with those men and get left with babies to be raised.

    The paradox of the situation is that women do not have the same difficulty as men. They will happily marry a man with a child (yes, I am aware of the broad generalization I am making. Women are more likely than males to have no reservations about marrying a man with a child.)

    “How do you ladies feel about the reality that most guys won’t marry a woman bearing another man’s child?” was recently questioned on an online forum. However, people revealed their thoughts, and their reactions will astound you.

    Let hear your opinion. Why do men don’t want to marry a woman with children?

    Read Also: Can You Marry When You Are Not Financially Strong?

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    • #19351
      Nne
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      The problem I am seeing is that of men’s egoistic tendency.  If a woman can marry a man that has a child from another woman, why won’t he consider a woman that has a child from another man?

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      Bernard
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      well thats because most of the time the real fathers of the children always come back later into their lives to disrupt everything

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      John Adeleke
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      well there are lots of complications in it, its often better for 2 people who already have kids in previous relationships than others

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    • #19365
      Chichi
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      it is cause men are selfish beings in general who always think about what other peoples perspective of them is…

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      Okey_14_boi
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      Well it’s an ego thing…the feeling of the unknown… Is she going to have to choose between him and her child…those nasty questions that just pop up in your heart

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      Kufekpo
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      This is personal choice. Men also think about what might happed in the future if they decide to make such move, unlike women who are not thinker but being so emotional about this subject.

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