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    Gideon Dosu
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    12 WAYS TO CHOOSE SPOUSES FOR YOUR CHILDREN

    Can you choose a spouse for your Children? Yes, you can, but not the way you think it to be. Its not by looking for a girl in your Church or neighbourhood and say this is the person you must married, not at all, making that final decision of whom to marry is in the hands of your Child base on divine direction and guidance from the lord and total conviction of the Child. If you try to force your Child to marry any one it will meet stiff resistance from the Child

    Don’t ever think that whosoever your Child marries is non of your Business, your Children marriage will affect you in many ways, whosoever they marry will become your son and daughter in law and will give birth to your grand Children.

    Whether your Children will continue in righteousness will also depend on whoever they marry, so you must be deeply involve as your Child get married (please get a copy of our book Titled: PARENTING ADULT CHILDREN)

    You can influence your Children decision of who to marry in so many ways. I will be opening your eyes to some of them here:

    1.         PRAY FOR AND WITH THEM

    Prayer us your greatest way of influence the life of an adult Child. Your prayer for their Marital choice should start early enough in fact it may start as soon as they are conceive.

    Pray that they will not marry enemy of the lord

    Pray that they will not marry their enemy

    Pray that they will not marry your enemy

    Pray to God to order their steps

    Pray against demonic influence in their choice

    Pray for Godly affection and divine direction

    1.         SHOW THEM GOOD EXAMPLE

    Let your own marriage be a good example of what a good and Godly home should be that your Children will look forward to building a good home by all means.

    1.         TEACH THEM

    As your Children grows teach them about good friendship, relationship, and Marriage. Teach them about Godly choice making and pure Courtship. This will prepare them adequately for a marital choice making.

    1.         RIGHT LOCATION

    Make sure your Children are rightly located. Live in righteous environment, let them go to Godly schools and keep Godly friends, their spouses will come from their environment and people they meet, help them to be in company of good people

    1.         TRAIN THEM

    You also need to train your Children about Godly Character, responsible living, hospitality, friendship, teamwork, partnership and Godly manners. People with Godly character always attract good people, when your Children behaves well you are only setting them up for Godly choice making.

    1.         TELL THEM

    Tell them how you choose, tell them stories of those that chose wrongly and their results.

    1.         TAME THEM

    Correct them when they are going wrong, rebuke if need be, don’t be afraid to curb their excesses, when a Child lives without control it is a set up against his or her destiny

    1.         GET BOOKS FOR THEM

    let them read quality books about Godly choice making, love, Courtship, and preparation for marriage.

    I recommend you get the following books written by us for them:

    Wisdom for choosing a life partner.

    Is he the one for me?

    Is she the one for me?

    32 guys and ladies you must never marry.

    32 ways to know true love.

    Pure courtship

    Preparing for marriage

    1.         MAKE THEM ATTEND MARRIAGE SEMINARS

    Encourage your Children to attend good marriage seminars.

    1.         ENROL THEM IN A MARRIAGE SCHOOL

    You can also enroll your Children in our marriage school (College of Marital Success)

    1.         MONITOR THEM

    Monitor them as they choose, ask them questions, pray with them, counsel them and stand with them as they make this lifelong decision.

    1.         BEFRIEND THEM

    The best way to influence your Children as they try to choose a life partner is to be their friend. Don’t just be a Parent be a Friend.

     

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