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    Is My Girlfriend The Root Cause Of My Problem? Please Advise

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    I’m a 32-year-old man, who is now experiencing some difficulties and requires immediate assistance.

    I was doing fine with my business a few years ago, living my life to the fullest, doing and eating whatever I wanted. I, too, did not have a girlfriend. Finally, I met my girlfriend, who possessed all of the attributes I had always desired in a woman: respect, hard work, and modesty, despite her lack of beauty.

    She became pregnant a few months after we began dating. I was frightened when she informed me because I wasn’t ready to be a father yet, but to my surprise, she was quite enthusiastic about the whole thing. That made me dislike her a bit because; it became obvious to me that, it’s exactly what she wanted.

    Her mother sent my girlfriend to my house the same day she found out she was pregnant. She gave birth to a boy a few months later.

    But the problem now is that not only has my business failed, but we also don’t have enough food to eat.

    Even though I went to a man of God before she gave birth and told him everything, he assured me that she was not my lady. I had my doubts about him because of the tone with which he approached me. “It’s as if you had a woman in your life,” he remarked. When I said yes, he cautioned me that I needed to be cautious because it appeared that I hadn’t seen my girlfriend yet. I reasoned with myself, thinking, “How could he not know that I have a woman by stating, “It’s like?”. And he should be aware that being unmarried is unusual for me.

    To shorten a long tale short, I now believe she is a complete horrible omen for me. We dated for almost two years before she became pregnant, and I have never had such success from the time she became pregnant till now. I’m starting to believe that our misfortune is due to our proximity, but I’m not sure what to do about it.

    Please, what do you think I should do about it.

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      Aries
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      So what makes you think that it is your girlfriend that brought bad luck to you? If you didn’t like her in the first place, why did you sleep with her. Find out what is wrong with you leave someone’s daughter alone

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      Ray
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      How?

      Were you not the one that said this…Finally, I met my girlfriend, who possessed all of the attributes I had always desired in a woman: respect, hard work, and modesty, despite her lack of beauty.

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