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    Is It Okay For Couple To Celebrate Their Divorce With Lunch Date After Many Years Of Separation?

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    Despite being apart for six years, a couple celebrates their divorce with a lunch date.

    Immaculate Nantongo, a Facebook user took to her page to share an emotional post of herself and her ex-husband having a nice time. According to her, sharing time cures all wounds, which is why she is able to forgive her ex-husband after the two organized a lunch to complete their separation in good spirits.

    She wrote:

    “7yrs ago I didn’t know we would be at this place sitting together and sharing a meal. how time heals everything… Deciding to let go of the hurt, betrayal and choosing to forgive wasn’t a simple thing but I did and we are in the best place we could ever be.

    Am not here to glamorize separation but to tell anyone in a similar situation, divorce is not the end of life. You can still be civil with your ex. Life can still be beautiful but also to let you know that God is not mad at you. Yes he hates divorce but he loves you so much.

    No parent would want their child to endure or be killed in a relationship just for the sake of it. If we earthly parents want the best for our kids how about God our father?

    God hates divorce for what it does to people, it breaks up families but in the midst of your divorce you can choose to make the most out of your situation. Co-parent better. It’s all about giving your kids the best opportunities in life. Making the best decisions for them

    So for one last time, we came together to celebrate the life we had and the individual lives we live. Happy divorce day to us and to the next chapter of my life.”

    What is your take on this? Let’s discuss.

    Read Also: I Was Raped In Front Of My Husband, Now He Wants To Divorce Me, What should I Do?

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    • #20502
      Chichi
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      there is no right way to do the wrong things, instead of divorcing why dont you work on your marriage issues, see a therapist and marriage councellor to help you overcome those issues

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    • #20546
      Bernard
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      very okay, its better to talk about it in serene environment and calm heads than go shouting and yelling at each other thereby disturbing the peace of the neighborhood..

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    • #20551
      Okey_14_boi
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      i dont know who needs to hear this but DIVORCE is not the way out…

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      John Adeleke
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      at the end of the meal you both might discover that theres no need to go separate ways… u might be able to spark the feelings during the conversation… love works in wondrous ways i guess

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    • #20561
      Fredo
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      When I first saw the caption, I thought it was a Nigerian lady until I read through to know it dawns on me that it was not a Nigerian. No Nigerian Lady will want to associate with her ex-husband let alone having a lunch date to separate their divorce.

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