- IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A WIFE OR HUSBAND YOU MUST READ THIS URGENTLYDear Singles,0. A lot of people want to be married but very few of them go into marriage prepared for it.1. What worsens it all and hands most marriages to Satan is that a lot of couples continue to lack any exposure to preparation while in it.2. Most become agitated when things are falling apart and begin to run around for a quick-fix solution.3. It is better to ask hard questions before going in and to continue to stay within the right frame of mind while in it.4. All of us are weak enough to fail at marriage if we don’t keep the right picture perpetually before our eyes.5. You can never be over-prepared for marriage. So don’t count any amount of books read, seminars attended as a waste. Just follow the right teachers and observe the right examples.6. As you are preparing, make sure to also check that the person you want to marry is equally interested in and actively pursuing preparation.7. When a prepared/preparing person marries an unprepared person, the prepared person is simply buying a hard job!8. So, help yourself. Be interested in a few things for you and them:i. What has your preparation been like and what has theirs been too?ii. Be specific and don’t beat around the bush. What books, what lessons, what convictions. Discuss in a topical sense and grill each other in detail.ii. When you speak with someone deeply, you will learn to filter mere talk from core convictions.iii. How does what they say translate into who they are on a daily basis?iv. What are their specific goals for marriage. Start with how they view marriage and the exact vision they have for you in that space. Don’t go in blindly.9.The wedding is not as important as the marriage.10. When everyone who said ‘congratulations’ turn and go, the reality of your choice begins.11. That life after the vow is what you must prepare for more than the few hours of the ceremony.12. Above all, if you both have sense, leading up to the start of a new home, invest time praying deeply.Think!Your Brother,Ocholi Okutepa
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