It was just around 1am in the middle of the night here in Nigeria, I needed to sleep but she refused that we must settle an issue, though we tried talking it over but it was always resulting in an argument, then I decided to avoid it by sleeping off, but she refused and started hitting me on the back that I am not going to sleep.
In the process, I just wanted to hold her from hitting me, I just didn’t know how it happened, my backhand landed on her face, I was shocked, likewise her, I couldn’t hold it seeing the tears roll down her cheek, I held her tight to apologize, she pushed me off, went to the sitting room still crying, at this point, it’s not who started it or who caused the problem that matters, it’s not how many times she has been hitting me that counts. Now I am the one apologizing, I am ashamed of myself now, though she has forgiven me but I can’t still believe I did it.
Have you ever been in this kind of situation before and how can this be handled?
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