After I Caught My Husband Cheating, Our Marriage Is Better Than Ever. What should I Do?
True, one of the things that women despise the most in marriage is cheating on their husbands. Many marriages have failed as a result of infidelity.
However, a woman who found herself in such a situation discovered a dramatic change in their marriage after the cheat, and she decided to share her story on social media and seeking advice.
“Don’t listen to anyone else. The fact of the matter is it your life your marriage. What I read in your question is that your marriage is better than ever. The part you are confused about is only because of society rules that say if he cheats then leave him. If you are ok and you are feeling loved and happy then that is what matters.
Maybe what is better is for you and your husband to sit and reimagine your marriage rules. Your marriage is a contract between only you and him. It can be whatever the two of you make it. Whatever the two of you are comfortable with. So talk to him about what you think truthfully think and not what you imagine society says to think.
I would feel amazing hurt if I cheated. I know because he has. He says he never but I believe otherwise. I have no plan to leave. We are not what we used to be. I am still very hurt and get incredibly sick to my stomach when the thought of his betrayal comes up. I knew something was wrong because he started being different. He stopped interacting with me. Things didn’t get better for us they got bad. That hurts. My husband didn’t love me and someone else he stopped loving me for someone else”.
How would you advise this woman seeking help?
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