Hi,

Please, let me remain Anonymous

I met a handsome young man through a professional social media group chat. I posted a message on the group, he saw it and went ahead to check my DP and later sent me a message. This guy is in his 30s and I in my 20s. He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no. Not too long, he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting a serious relationship and also wanted to know me better. We chatted and exchange pictures in a short time.
He proposed we meet in person. Like a joke, in less than a week of chatting with this guy, he is coming to my city to see me to show me that he is serious about this.

I’m now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn’t read any meaning to our conversations when it started initially but now, it’s like I’m falling head over heels for him. I’m trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not take me for granted. Though I am not being difficult, I’m just being cautious.

The problem now is that it’s becoming hard and so difficult for me to restrain my feelings for him.

Please I need advice on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.