How Can I Deal With A Nagging Wife?

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John Adeleke 5 days, 12 hours ago

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July 19, 2021 at 3:27 pm #15698
Tobex
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How can I deal with a nagging wife?
Let me use myself as a case study so I hope to get a good response here to correct a lot of mistakes in my home.
Mine nags a lot, not a day passes that she won’t nag or make complaints about some things I do at home. If I don’t do what she wants my actions are criticized.
It’s quite frustrating to put in so much effort in the house and family to be then critiqued in the end. The behaviour of my wife is the sole reason for our fights. I never once initiated a fight, it was always as a result of her critique.
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But she is my wife so I must deal with it. It is saddening because I do not handle these situations very well, I just explode and end up saying awful things to her, which are true but I regret it later.

So Peeps, How can I deal with a nagging wife?

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- July 19, 2021 at 3:35 pm #15705
  Seyibabs8
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  Just bear with her. Listen and don’t take it personally, know that she’s your better half. If she nags, there might be unaddressed concerns. Wait until her mood is good and talk to her. She nags because she’s stress and lacks attention. Give her time and shower her with your love and affection. A happy wife never nags.
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- July 19, 2021 at 3:39 pm #15708
  Babs
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  Talk to her. Try to understand what she’s trying to say.
  If you find yourself to be the problem, try and rectify it and work towards making her happy.
  If she’s the problem, you have 2 options:
  1. Try to help her understand and work out an amicable solution.
  2. Confront her (Possible health risks and eulogies involved)
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- July 19, 2021 at 3:41 pm #15710
  Tolu
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  Tell her to please stop a couple of times nicely so you can say that you asked her nicely first. Then get more assertive if she persist. If need be get as loud and repetitive as she is being. My girlfriend has been trying desperately to make me a yes man but she under estimated my evolutionary hardwiring.
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- July 19, 2021 at 4:06 pm #15718
  Aries
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  Women naturally have a knack for nagging
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- July 19, 2021 at 4:16 pm #15724
  Okey_14_boi
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  Me wey ah no get patience…I go just pursue the woman
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- July 19, 2021 at 7:25 pm #15734
  Okey_14_boi
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  Women are natural nagging creatures…just let them be
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- July 19, 2021 at 7:46 pm #15737
  Chichi
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  Abeg leave us women alone… You men are the source of all our problems…from menstruation down to menopause
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- July 20, 2021 at 6:46 am #15739
  John Adeleke
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  Nah so them dey do..trust women less and live longer
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