Is It Right To Hide Or Belittle Yourself To Find “Wife Material?

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    Tolu
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    Is It Right To Hide Or Belittle Yourself To Find “Wife Material?

    Hide Or Belittle Yourself

    Hello Everyone…

    I want to know if it’s right to hide one’s achievements like educational, monetary, etc because one wants to find true love.

    Does it make any sense?

    Would a woman be considered bad for rejecting you, if you said you squat with your brother whereas you own a house?

    Or that you didn’t attend a university whereas you did?

    Read Also: Can you date a man younger than you?

    Or that you didn’t have a job whereas you did?

    Note that all these are in a bid to test if she is wife material.

    Is it wrong for women to insist on certain things like wealth, educational background, etc?

     

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    • #16719
      John Adeleke
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      hmm, y would i do that to my confidence to please a woman. I have never been a people pleaser ever in my life and i wont start for any woman

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    • #16720
      Chichi
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      yes, any man that wants me as a wife must be ready to bend the knee in humility and ask for my hand, else no way

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    • #16752
      Bernard
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      well ladies or women love it when a man brings themselves low so as to get to their hearts, so if shes worth, then go for her

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    • #16782
      Seyibabs8
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      I would have said it is wrong to put up a low profile while searching for a good wife..but in Nigeria case, I think it is the right thing to do considering that a lot of nigerian girls are after material things. A girl that accepts you when you have nothing(material and financial things) to offer most likely have genuine affection for you.

      But we will also need to consider other things like age, is she getting old and desperate for marriage and child? Cause if she is desperate, she might accept any man whether poor or rich.

      Anyways, marriage doesn’t have any manual…choose what works for you.

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    • #16783
      Okey_14_boi
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      well i have at settle points had to come down in  order to accommodate my partners in the past, so its nothing new to me

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      Okey_14_boi
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      well i have at settle points had to come down in  order to accommodate my partners in the past, so its nothing new to me

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    • #16785
      Fredo
      Participant

      I watched a movie where a prince from a rich background employed this technique and acted as a driver. When the lady finally found out about it, the lady broke up with him, to the lady, it means there was no trust in their relationship.

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    • #16788
      Tolu
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      I think that is the best thing to do if u are truly looking for true love.

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    • #16803
      Tobex
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      Yes oooooo.. Na wetin dy sell now be dat

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    • #16834
      Kufekpo
      Moderator

      Sometimes, it is good to belittle oneself to get a wife material this era. I heard of a man who wore a torn pair of trousers to beg for money on the roadside.  The lady cheerfully gave him the money. Today, they are happily married.

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