5 Sad Truths Of Dating A Guy Who Lives With His Parents
Dating a guy who is living with his parents as an adult has a stigma.
It is a general belief that young people especially guy should fend for themselves when they reach a certain age. Now, don’t get me wrong, living with your parents isn’t that big of a deal. But you may start to wonder why he’s living with them when he’s at the age where living independently is more common.
For girls who have never dated a guy who still lives with his parents, here is all you need to know.
#1 Privacy restrictions.
For one thing, anything that you do that requires an R rating will need to be done within the confines of his bedroom. You’re lucky if he’s got his own bathroom, but what if you badly need to pee mid-make out session, and you don’t want to risk running into his father when you’ve got your hair and clothes all in disarray?
There will be times when, in the heat of the moment, your guy’s mother will suddenly knock on the door to announce that dinner is ready. Of course, you’ll need to be there. But who would want to give up on potentially great sex to go downstairs and have dinner and small talk with the family?
#3 Paper-thin walls.
No loud music is permitted. All conversations have a volume limit for fear that your guy’s parents might hear any unsavoury details. Even when you’re frustrated and arguing, you can’t make a scene because you’re in his parents’ house.
He may be a freeloader, but he’ll need to fulfil some obligations from time to time. And there will be some obligations that his mom won’t mind saying out loud, even when you’re there. So what you once thought would be a relaxing bonding moment with your guy will turn out to be you sitting around, while he has to do some chores or errands.
#5 Come one, come all.
It’s not like you are being stingy, but you only have the budget for two people. So what are you going to do when your boyfriend decides that he wants to order in and he has three other siblings in the living room, and his parents out in the garden? The family lets you eat their food, so you definitely cannot hide away in your boyfriend’s room and munch on those goodies.
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