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    Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Not Considerate?

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    Frank and Anita had gotten engaged. Their wedding was set to take place in a few months. He is based in Lagos, whereas she is based in Calabar.

    Anita travelled to Lagos for a conference and wanted to surprise her fiancé at home. When she arrived in Lagos about 9:00 p.m. that same evening, she found him getting ready to retire for the night. They were overjoyed to see each other, so she decided to stay the night and travel to her aunt’s house the next morning.

    She was awake and ready to go first thing in the morning. But he told her to hold on until he could drop her off at the office. So she ate a quick breakfast while she waited for Him to finish his work so they could leave.

    He was prepared and rushed to the dining room for his normal cup of tea and a few slices of bread.

    He saw there was no milk in the dining room and checked the flask to see whether his fiancée had made his tea. The flask, on the other hand, was completely empty. As a result, he called her to find out what had transpired.

    And she replied by wondering if He expected her to manage a can of liquid milk for two people.

    She claimed she couldn’t drink two cups of tea with a tin of liquid peak milk. She admits to drinking the entire tin of milk since she dislikes tea with sugar and enjoys her tea creamy and thick.

    She went on to tell him that if he really needed breakfast that morning, he should drink mineral water with bread. She wasn’t ready to start mincing milk while encouraging him to constantly keep his house with enough beverages to avoid such an eventuality.

    He expressed his disappointment that she could only think of herself by drinking the entire tin of milk and not considering him, despite the fact that it was the last tin in the carton and he lived in a rural location with no stores.

    He was aware that he only had a tin of milk left in the house, and due to his hectic schedules, he had intended to do grocery shopping over the weekend.

    She was an unexpected visitor, and he had no idea she was going to Lagos, so there was no need to prepare for her or make provisions for an extra mouth.

    This small incident sparked an argument that almost escalated into a physical altercation, but He handled it maturely and quickly apologized since he didn’t want them to leave angry.

    They quickly made up, and He dropped her off at her aunt’s house, giving her money as usual and showering her with hugs and kisses before heading to the office.

    He called her two days later to break the engagement and cancel the wedding arrangements.

    He claimed that the milk incident had made him realize what kind of callous, selfish woman who is not considerate, he was about to marry.

    He stated that it meant only one thing to him: that his wife would not be a good manager of his finances and home, and that he does not require such a lady as a wife.

    What are your thoughts on this?

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    • #16012
      Tolu
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      I cannot ooo. if things no cm go well she go cm run.

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    • #16037
      Tobex
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      God for bid

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    • #16058
      John Adeleke
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      no i cant, even the last one that i dated almost killed me with hypertension… Abeg i no dey for that one at all

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    • #16093
      Okey_14_boi
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      well I can always groom her into the woman I always want her to be, that is y i am called the bride-groom

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      Chichi
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      well as a lady, i cant marry an inconsiderate man, they are selfish and manipulative

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    • #16169
      Nne
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      A lady  that is not considerate should not be taken as a wife material. My free advice for men.

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    • #16174
      Ray
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      She used a whole tin of milk for her tea alone. What greediness?

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    • #16175
      Aries
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      It a good move Frank called off  the wedding. A woman with such a behaviour needs to be watched again and again because she can do unimaginable things.

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