My wife and I are married for five years now and to the glory of God, we are blessed with our own children.

My wife is the kind of woman that everyone will like to be with, you will feel alive around her ( she is a sanguine), she’s jovial, so with this, she has a good number of friends.

Recently I noticed my wife now makes uncalled demands and this is unlike her before, she compares me with her friend’s hubby, her friend’s hubby bought this for her, that the cloth she wore the other day is so so amount. Her hubby took her to Dubai for holidays, she nowadays hardly appreciate things I do for her, though not openly but with her sudden change in attitude and some signs I saw I just got the message.

I earn well, I mean okay to keep my family up and running, but for luxury, I don’t spend carelessly so, she knows it won’t work. The truth of the matter is that she knows our total income and she is now more focused on how she wants her friends to see her, the Car I bought for her last year has become too old for her to use, I kept wondering if it’s her friends that are influencing her or she’s just punishing me intentionally. Sincerely, my Wife is a faithful woman that I am sure.

These question kept coming to my mind;

Now should I control the friends she keeps?

Should I be the one to determine her friends?

Is it right to choose friends for your spouse?

Is it mandatory to know all your spouse’ friends?

I have tried to figure who these her friends are, all I could get is “..a friend” or “… One of my Friends” they are just nameless and faceless, some visit once in a while if they are going for an outing, I get to hear or know their presence with uncontrolled calls almost every 30mins interval.

I am fed up of all this her drama…..