Dear,

Your happiness matters. I think your parents should even be thanking God that there is a man who wants to marry their single mother daughter.

Be bold dear

There is nothing bad marrying the man, but you will definitely have some issues with baba’s children. Bcos they will think you’l are there bcos of baba’s inheritance. Please prepare your Mind ahead. Show them love genuinely couple with your prayer all shall be well.

Do people still care about their parents’ opinion before showing their life partner.

Well, this is Africa.

The question I will like to ask is, do you love the man? If your answer is in the affirmative, go ahead and marry him irrespective of the wide gap in age.

Your happiness should be your paramount not what people will say. Remember, if you marry a guy who is younger than you, people will still talk.

50 years old man? that means you might still become a widow again, these days that people don’t grow old.

Christie! Are you god? that knows when the man dies. My sister, go ahead, you are fortunate. Don’t mind christie

I am not god, but I’ve taken my statistics. You will hardly see a man older than 70 years nowadays. So you want her to become a widow again after 20 years.

Hmn! Your parents know the risk in marrying an aged man. If you cannot convince your parent, then wait for your time.

This Christie get bad mind. What if the woman dies before him. Abi na only men statistics you take?!!!

Christie, yes, we are waiting for the statistics of women. My sister go ahead

Opportunity comes but once in a while. My sister grab your copy now!!!

My dear sister, make sure you take the man to a professional marriage counselor who could discover if the man is pretending or not. Because men can pretend to be nice when looking for something

FM Thank you, that is another major step you should take. You cannot detect on your own, you need a professional to interrogate both of you. There is nothing wrong being a single mother.

Christie Yes that you are single mother doesn’t depreciate your value, don’t be in a hurry to take this critical decision

So, na the man’s value depreciate. You guys are not talking about time. If the man leaves, when will another honest man come?

Sulaimon I have known you to be girigiri (hurry hurry) guy. The God that brought this man will bring another if this one is not fit for her. Haba!

Why hurry, when there are still uncountable men out there both single guys and single fathers.

Uche Ogbona  I seeeeee! this is the reason we have so many unmarried ladies. They are looking for the right man

FM, Keep waiting for the statistics. It’s my personal statistics after a solid research. you can take your survey and post it here for us

Patience is the key here

But if you can convince your parent to give him a chance

Inumidun, how does a lady give a man a chance. I don’t understand

Inumidun, Me too, I don’t understand o. They are already friends, so what type of chance is that again

I tire o. Until the man sleeps with her abi wetin?

Well, you can give a man a chance without sleeping with him. If he’s in a hurry to sleep with you, then I doubt lis feelings

Lol! Abeg give him a chance. Marriage counselor has spoken.

Inumidun, But once you accept to marry a man, you cannot resist him from sleeping with you. So what chance again

Don’t misunderstand me. You can accept a man’s proposal and start a courtship. Accepting proposal is not equal to marrying him. If he misbehave, you can breakup fast fast

Inumidun, Hmnnnn I think I get your point now

Ok o! My sister, be very careful o. I don’t even trust these men out there

Chiristie, You talk like a feminist

This is not feminism matter, we need to advice like our sister and that is what Christie is doing

Uche Ogbona, So, we guys have been advising her like a mother. Time wait for no body. I say again, Grab your copy now!!!

Sulaimon, Lols!!!

Copies no dey finish na

Yes o, copies plenty full ground, original copies sef

Sha make sure you don’t take pirated copy for original

Age difference shouldn’t be an obstacle. Give yourself brain