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    Should A Mother Dress Up Before Her Son?

    Can A Mother Dress Up Before Her Son

    Should A Mother Dress Up Before Her Son?

    Some time ago, I read a story of a pastor that counseled a young guy, who was addicted to masturbation. He bluntly told the Clergy that he can’t do without masturbation.

    One thing that struck the pastor in his confession was that the mother was the root cause of what happened to him. ”My mum caused all this for me”. He said. Out of curiosity, he asked the young man why his mother was the cause.

    However, in his responses, he gave a graphic detail of what lurked him to masturbation.

    “I started masturbation when I was 4 years old; my mother has always been dressing up naked before me, I am used to seeing her nakedness. I am not moved to have sex with her, but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mother dressing up naked before me.”

    “I still remember seeing her nakedness regularly till I was eight years, and my father does shout at her:

    “Send this boy out before you dress,’ but my mum would always reply by saying:

    ‘Will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thoughts in his heart.’

    “Anytime I see my mum’s naked body, I long to see ladies’ naked bodies.

    The resultant effect of seeing my mother nakedness propelled me  into  having sex at age ten, and till now I am not free from sex, heavy pornography, and masturbation…”

    Also read:  17 Ways Masturbation Can Ruin Your Life

    Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this? You are dressing up before your 2 years old son/daughter; you say he/she doesn’t know anything yet? That’s very cruel.

    Some couples will be having sex while their close-to-2-years old child will be in their room with them; they’ll feel and think that he/she can only see, he/she can’t understand.

    Parents for a mere fact that your child does not need to understand make you throw caution to the wind. Seeing your nakedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urges in that child. Remember, it is now a jet world!

    How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness? Don’t let your children see your nakedness. Don’t make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory, they may want to explore and experiment with what they are seeing. Stop making free homemade ‘sex clips or videos for your children to watch.

    I will advise our mother to sit properly, dress properly too, and stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs for your son to see your inner tight and pant. Be very careful!

    Fathers should not be seen wearing ordinary boxers at home while your ‘thing’ is dangling and your daughter is seeing it. There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse. Don’t say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house. It’s not your house alone; it’s a family house/home. You are putting your children into sexual bondage through these acts. The initiation starts from home.

    Lastly, the mother should not wear an ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons. It’s dangerous. Yes, they won’t lust after you, but you might be messing up with their sexuality; and increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out there.

    Let’s stop being ‘pornographic materials’ to our children. Raising sexually pure children begins at home. It is our responsibility as parents/guardians to build virtue into their children.

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