4 Dangerous Things To Avoid When Raising A Boy Child- Parents Beware!
Parenting as many can attest is not an easy task to fulfil. There will be mistakes and always room to improve which makes one frustrated.
Today we shall discuss a number of things that you as a parent, are doing that are very harmful to the child especially when the child is a boy.
First is implanting the notion that men don’t cry in the child. The child has to know that he is a human being and due to that, there will be moments that may force him to cry and express certain emotions.
This will make the child adequately sensitive and empathetic to situations boosting his understanding to be able to relate to emotional situations people find themselves in.
Secondly, avoid telling the boy not to be scared in some situations. Many parents have impacted their male children that they should not get scared and this has kept the children from knowing how to respond to some situations.
Thirdly, not hugging the child enough needs to be avoided. As boys get older, parents stop giving them warm hugs which will help boys know the importance of touch and love. This keeps them from expressing themselves more.
Restricting the child from engaging in household chores also strips the child of a sense of responsibility. This makes them clumsy and unable to deal with situations where they are alone and have no one helping them complete their chores.
Another thing to be avoided is not teaching the child how to deal with puberty issues. From smells to sensations, everything that child needs to know must be taught to him.
The child must learn how to be clean and decisive in situations. Also, the child must be taught how to take rejection and when to reject.
The child needs experience in several situations of life so he can also become the leader he was meant to be in the future.
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