8 AMAZING WAYS TO ASK A LADY OUT
Asking a Lady out can be a pretty intimidating experience, especially if you are planning to approach someone you have had a crush on for a long time. Most of the time, it seems like the longer you wait to ask a Lady out, the more nerve-wracking it ends up being.
Most of us fear being rejected – in some cases nearly as much as we fear death! There are ways to significantly boost your chances of hearing that coveted “yes,” when you do finally work up the nerve to approach her to ask for that first date. There are probably at least a million creative ways to ask a lady out, and hopefully, these suggestions will be a good starting point.
1. THE BIRTHDAY APPROACH
This is a good one if you have been putting off asking her out for a while because you are too intimidated by the idea. Asking her out on her birthday gives you a deadline, and is a great opportunity to include a little gift with your offer. Lots of people tend to be in a good mood on their special day, and if you make hers even more special by bringing her a little something along with your proposition, you will probably increase your chances of getting that date.
We all know that most girls love things that are romantic. What’s more romantic that writing her an original poem to ask her out? You’ll get extra bonus points if she happens to love poetry, and chances are pretty good that she’ll like it even if your poetry sucks because you made it up yourself, and you did it just for her.
3. SING HER A SONG
This may not go over too well if you don’t have a little musical talent, but you never know! Even if you have a lousy voice, you may be able to pull this off by putting a funny spin on it. At the very least, you should get a good laugh out of her, and many girls love funny guys who can make them laugh.
4. GET HER A “TALKING” TEDDY BEAR
Ladies generally like teddy bears. More so talking ones. Give her a talking bear and you’re on a one way street to winning her heart.
5. GET HER FLOWERS
As old school as this sounds, Ladies appreciate flowers. It’s the epitome of romance and it clearly lets her know that you want to pursue her romantically. Flowers are an instant win.
Note: before getting her flowers, ensure she’s not allergic to them.
6. MAKE A PUZZLE
If you are reasonably good at making stuff, you might try getting some really stiff cardboard, writing your question on it and then cutting it up into pieces that look like a puzzle. You could leave it somewhere for her to find or even mail it to her. Spending your time putting something like that together for her might strike the right romantic chord with her and get you that first date.
7. LIGHT SOME CANDLES
Nothing says “I want to be romantic” more than lit candles. Light some candles and spell out your intentions. She’ll be ecstatic to witness such creativity by someone interested in asking her out.
8. FLOAT THE IDEA
Getting your hands on a helium-filled balloon should not present too much of a challenge, but you’ll definitely want to put more thought into what you write on it. And old school balloon will be easier to write on, but if you prefer one of those shiny Mylar balloons, it should be easy to attach your message. Tie it to her car, mailbox, or any place where you know she’ll find it.
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