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    Marriage

    The rate at which marriages hit the rock nowadays is becoming so alarming. One wonders why marriages experience so many problems, and the union is being threatening, thereby making the marriage less attractive. A question now is, how will you know if your home is in trouble?

    In this article, we will reveal seven ways marriage is showing signs of cracks and trouble looming. Are you ready? Let us rock and roll.

    1. You Do not Longer Talk With Your Partner

    There are four levels of communication that married couples should participate. This, of course, includes day-to-day communication ( where you discuss how your day went), dream conversation (where discuss your goals in life), life-work communication( when you discuss various sharing and laughing.

    Experts believe that before a couple can settle down as husband and wife, they should be the best friend and maintain open lines of communication has resulted in a strong friendship, which is necessary for a stronger marriage.

    2. You Don’t Longer Hold Hands, Kiss, Or Caress

    Touching and sex are the ultimate forms of communication because you’re communicating with your body. When a partner allows a communication break down in their relationship, nothing will prevent the marriage from having an issue.

    However, some experts say that the best thing the couple can do is touch, and when you see a couple in a car sitting a long way from each other, it might be an indication that they are old couples and probably a couple in trouble.

    3. Your Sex Life Is Boring

    When your married life is boring, this is a pointer that everything is wrong in the relationship when sex with the spouse is less attractive or even humdrum, where the man relieves himself and the woman suffers through it.

    4. Every Discussion Escalate Into a Major Fight

    The rate of domestic violence in some homes has reached a crescendo in any country. It has gotten to a point where many couples use dangerous weapons on each other. All these usually happen where husband and wife could not control the anger when they argue vehemently.

    5. You Take Your Spouse For Granted

    One of the things that break a marriage is when you take your spouse for granted. It is the best advice for partners to keep themselves attractive to each other.

    It is not often( outright) communicated that partner no longer likes the way the other look, but be as enthusiastic about making love, or may not want to be seen in the public with the mate because of mate appearance.

    6. You Let Other Things Come In Between You And Your Spouse

    Read Also: WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR MARRIAGE IS PAINFUL

    It is, well-known fact that couples allow children, relatives, and sometimes jobs to come in between them, which of course, brings

    problems in the long run.

    A lot of couples have different work hours, and they don’t spend quality time together. They may go out for dinner or watch a film together they miss the whole week whereby they sit down and share things. Sitting down to talk every night and feeding each other can strengthen the union.

    7. You Don’t Do Things Together Anymore

    You will witness a big problem if you are no longer feeding your marriage and you don’t do things together. You begin to display a loss of energy or excitement concerning your partner, which often exhibits a lack of shared interests.

    Essentially, there are two ways to deal with a marriage that is on the downside. Partners can actively and aggressively work towards saving the relationship, or they can look the reality of divorce straight in the eye and deny it to happen.

    Whatever the case may be, therapists agree that any good marriage is obtainable – if the two people involved are willing to fight for it.

     

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      Babs
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      Good one

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        KUFRE EKPO
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        Thank you for reading the post. I hope you liked it.

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