6 Top Secrets How To Date A Lady
Going by the definition of dating means you’re going on dates. You are actively getting out there and meeting people and spending time with them. “Dating someone” means you’re seeing somebody specific, with purpose and on a regular basis. … You’re spending time with a person (or persons) in hopes of finding a committed relationship.
Let’s face it – there’s not a class in school about relationships that teaches you how to date a girl. But have no fear! In this article, I am going to share some top secret on how to date a lady.
#1 Get the date
Yes, this seems like a no-brainer. You can’t know how to date a girl if you don’t actually ask them for a date! But these days isn’t what it used to be. Decades ago, a man used to pick the woman to know her, take her out and pay, and generally woo her.
But these days, it’s all about “Netflix and chill.” Because of this, two people may wonder if they are actually on a date or just hanging out as friends… or friends-with-benefits. So, make it official – ask her out on a proper date!
#2 Plan an unforgettable date
Forget the “let’s hang out” lines. Be a mature man and take her somewhere that she’ll always remember. The date should be romantic and memorable.
#3 The goodnight kiss
If you feel like the romantic feeling is mutual, then she will probably want you to kiss her. Granted, not all girls like to kiss on the first date.
But here is something you should NOT do. Do not ASK if you can kiss her. Well, maybe some girls like that. But most girls like it when you just take charge and have the confidence to go in for the smooch. Asking to kiss her doesn’t show that confidence. But don’t be aggressive about it. Read her body language first to see if she’s giving you the green light.
#4 Make plans for a second date
If the date is going well, then don’t leave her hanging. I know that a lot of people wait a few days to call or text after a first date. I never understood why. If you like someone, then just go for it!
At the end of the first date, ask when she’s available again. Just don’t be clingy. Show interest without suffocating her. This is crucial for knowing how to date a girl.
#5 keep in touch
Even if you had a great first date and have the second one set up, don’t be intermittent with your communication. Girls have an amazing ability to over-analyze everything.
So even if you felt like you were soul mates on the first date, she will wonder why you are not keeping in touch with her. But again, don’t be obnoxious and needy about it. Just enough to let her know you are still there and still interested in her.
#6 Be chivalrous
Chivalry should not be dead. It’s not disrespectful to a woman to pay for her dinner and open doors for her. In fact, it’s just the opposite.
Chivalrous acts are polite, and they say, “I like you and want to do nice things for you.” So, don’t be a caveman – pretend you are living out of the 1950s and be a chivalrous man.
Knowing how to date a girl the right way can take time to learn. But as you get more practice, you’ll become a pro in no time. And you’ll give your sweetheart just the kind of fairytale romance she’s always dreamed of.