Family Lifers Forums

Create forums and topics you and your friends can discuss. You can see your friends activities, views and responses on all topics!

Home Forums 5 amazing ways to attract the man of your dreams

2 voices
2 replies
  • Creator
  • #25245

    5 amazing ways to attract the man of your dreams


    We all want to meet the man of our dreams, and waiting for him to appear can be frustrating, but with these 5 ideas, you can speed up your fairytale.

    1. Know what you want

    You’d better know what you’re looking for or you’ll end up with a bunch of things you don’t want. It’s critical to have faith in your own needs and desires.

    You must have him down to a science, know every last detail, understand his chemical makeup and formula, in short, you must be certain you know the type of man you desire. Don’t be afraid to take risks with this one.

    Create a solid, powerful intention. Make a list of what you desire in a partner, as well as what you don’t want.

    You want the universe to give you exactly what you want. To do so, you must be crystal clear on the image of your dreamboat.

    You’re creating a man here, so make him the way you want him to be, but be sure you know how you want him to be; otherwise, you could end up with some fascinating characters.

    1. Get rid of baggage

    You’ll end up in a hot mess faster than you think if you think you can just move on and ignore some things from the past.

    How do you intend to bring all of that baggage into your next relationship? Isn’t it true that you’re on the lookout for the man of your dreams? He doesn’t want all of that, girl.

    So clean up your table, clean out your closet, and reorganize your suitcase since your dream man isn’t interested in dealing with any of that.

    While some of those traumas are inescapable and will reappear at some point, you want to be in top shape when your dream man comes along. Don’t go hunting for him unless you’ve first worked on yourself.

    That isn’t how it works. Cleanse your system, including your mind, body, and spirit, and allow your heart to recover. But, whatever you do, reconsider all of the baggage you’ve been carrying. Make yourself lighter and brighter.

    Read Also: 5 crucial sex conversations for a successful marriage

    1. Exorcise your ghosts

    Ex-boyfriends are one thing, but baggage is another. You may wish to break that chord if you retain some sort of communication with them.

    Many of you keep in touch with an ex because you have co-dependency issues, some because you desire a backup plan, and others because you enjoy the attention; all of these reasons are incorrect reasons to maintain an ex in your life.

    There’s no reason to keep him around if he’s not a true friend who you can rely on. Plus, having an ex around can make even the most self-assured people feel uncomfortable.

    So, since we’re talking about the man of your dreams, we’ll want to make sure we’re spotless when he shows up in our lives like beautiful early morning fog on a very green mountain, we’ll want to make sure we’re ready. Allow those ghosts to leave and make room in your life for a real human.

    1. Focus on YOU

    There’s nothing like doing things for yourself to make you feel good. Working on ourselves, whether through a course, new skills, or simple self-care, is the key to happiness. We want to boost our levels of feel-good feelings that originate with us rather than from someone else.

    We want to be the ones who bring enjoyment to ourselves. As a result, we boost our positive energy. We raise our vibration when our energy is positive.

    That’s not a lie; your ideal man will emerge in an instant. We begin to radiate outwards when we operate on energy planes that make us happy and contented. The law of attraction states that similar waves will attract similar waves.

    As a result, you want to focus on improving yourself in a positive way. Heal, learn, and enjoy yourself; do whatever it takes to enhance your confidence and your dream man will appear in no time. Don’t be astonished if he has the same amount of energy as you. Girl, that’s how it works. These are the laws of love’s cosmos.

    1. Dress to make you feel good

    You may have the man of your dreams down to a /t/, with all the /i/s dotted and such, but you cannot know him completely.

    You don’t know all of his likes and dislikes, but if he’s the man of your dreams, he’ll be a mirror image of you or at the very least enjoy the same things you do.

    As a result, dressing for him is pointless when you should be dressing for yourself.

    Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Don’t pretend to be someone you aren’t. If you’re making bad decisions and moves about yourself, he won’t show up.

    Remember the guideline about being self-assured? That certainly applies here, girl. Make a strong effort and stay to it. Don’t change your style just because you think he prefers something else.

    If he’s your one and only, he’ll appreciate your sense of style, so go ahead and wear whichever you like. He will adore you for who you are. And, at the end of the day, clothes are just clothes, so he’ll enjoy whatever you put on. He’s going to love the girl.


    Kindly follow us on Twitter

  • Author
    • #25277
      John Adeleke

      hmmm… this one loud oh

    • #25310

      pls stop giving all these ladies the wrong notions, u are helping no one

Topic tags

You must be logged in to reply to this topic.


Invite your friends to Familylifers



  1. # 1Profile Photo
    Family Lifers
    13672 Points
  2. # 2Profile Photo
    3409 Points
  3. # 3Profile Photo
    John Adeleke
    3266 Points
  4. # 4Profile Photo
    3243 Points
  5. # 5Profile Photo
    3230 Points


  • Profile picture of Brenda
    registered 4 days, 6 hours ago
  • Profile picture of adhey
    registered 1 week, 2 days ago
  • Profile picture of Adewale
    registered 1 week, 3 days ago
  • Profile picture of coydzs9283875
    registered 2 weeks ago
  • Profile picture of Odufa
    registered 3 weeks, 5 days ago

Become a member of

Enjoy these benefits!

  • Connect your friends
  • Solve Marriage and Relationship Problems
  • Showcase your skills and products in our MARKET PLACE for FREE
  • Drop your CV, get a job And lots more

New Report