5 SIGNS OF AN UNFAITHFUL PARTNER
Staying together is sometimes hard, especially if a couple no longer feel that special spark of affection for each other. Knowing that your partner has been, or is currently being unfaithful isn’t always an easy thing to spot, so here are five different warning signs to look out for:
1. Their schedule changes with no good explanation
Most people have predictable schedules, and even if their schedule changes, there’s usually a reason that makes sense. That’s especially true if this keeps happening when your partner has no new job, promotion, or project they’re working on.
2. Dressing to Impress
Couples often dress up around each other at the start of a relationship, seeking to look their best for their potential life mate. After a while though, couples tend to get more comfortable around each other and feel they don’t need to try as hard as they once did. However, if your significant other suddenly starts ‘dressing to kill’ once more, there’s always that chance it’s because they are trying to impress a new person in their life.
3. They’re suddenly unreachable
Again, a change is the big factor. If your partner has a job that makes it tough to reach them during certain hours of the day, it doesn’t mean they’re cheating. But if you’re suddenly struggling to reach them when you could in the past, and it’s a consistent issue, that should raise a red flag.
“Cheaters need privacy and blocks of uninterrupted time.” “Someone engaged in an ongoing affair must be periodically unreachable.” After all, they don’t want to risk you hearing suspicious voices or background noises.
4. Acting Odd around their devices
If your partner is suddenly acting weird around their phone, laptop or other devices, they could certainly be hiding something. The question is, what are they hiding? For all you know they might be planning a grand romantic surprise, but they could also be hiding a secret partner.
If you start to feel strange about it, simply ask your partner if you can view their messages. In the event that your partner picks a fight or acts strange about it, you can be forgiven for thinking your partner is hiding something from you, but you still won’t know what. If this weirdness continues without any surprises, gifts or explanations, your partner might be cheating.
5. They accuse *you* of cheating.
This is a weird but common habit of cheaters—and there are a few reasons for it. By making your alleged behavior the issue, it puts you on the defensive and takes the focus off of them. It can also make you less likely to speak up about things that seem off because you don’t want to upset them, given that they’re already “worried” that you’re cheating. And it also gives them a reason to say they need “time away to think,” a.k.a. meet up with their lover.
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