4 disadvantages of dating a younger man in Nigeria
Your problem starts with his mother and other members of the family.
If there’s anything everyone can agree on, it’s that times are changing, and the things that were once frowned upon have now become the norm.
Where it was once unimaginable for women to ask men or first declare their sexual interest, they are now encouraged to play.
To some extent, the ice-cold Nigerian attitude towards women dating younger men has begun to thaw, but there still seems to be a long way before the idea flows into all cultures and becomes truly mainstream.
Experience has shown that women disregard the age and go to younger men, they love; but, of course, there are some disadvantages of dating younger men as a coin always has two sides.
Many families in Nigeria are still frowning on sons who decide to marry older women. The mothers always voice their discontent and disapproval.
If a survey is conducted of Nigerian mothers, the answers received are very probable.
- People will talk
Of course, far too many people still have to deal with the idea of genuinely falling in love with younger men and older women, so they still assume that one of their partners has a further motive for choosing the other.
As a result, people continue to raise their eyes on pairs who ride against the tide of the relationship and date, despite their age differences.
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- Relationship problems might get blamed on the age difference
It is very probable that one of the partners will link this to the difference of age when issues appear in the relationship and when they communicate about resolving the real issues of the relationship, they will fight with the bitterness which tends to come from age-sensitive things.
- Separate ideas of fun
Especially when the woman is much older than the man, the couple might have problems with conflicting ideas about what fun it means.
The young men tend to be very bounce, adventurous and full of life because of their nature and age, and this might have been a bit of a problem in the relationship.
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