11 THINGS YOU MUST NOT DO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GOOD HUSBAND
It is every single ladies desire in life to be happily married but before the time comes, there are some things you should never do as a lady which are listed and explained below. Go through them and give yourself a rethink and brain reset if truly you deserve and desire a good husband for a better marriage.
1.Don’t forsake God:
You see, you can never do well if you abandon God for a man; it will always backfire.
No man is worth sacrificing your relationship with God.
Any relationship that seeks to take you from God wants to destroy you. Don’t allow it.
Nobody can love you like God. Love him as the one who created all things.
2.Don’t Be Desperate:
Truly you desire and deserve a good man but you are not permitted to be desperate to get any. Nothing good comes out of desperation.
3.Don’t Be Involved In Immorality:
It’s now becoming a norm for young ladies to go into sexual relationships before marriage. Many ladies have burnt their fingers in the process.
There is a natural tendency for a young woman to explore her sexuality with the one she finds herself strongly attracted to or in love with. This tendency is natural and seems normal, but it has grave consequences and it is evil in the sight of God.
Be your real self with good character, never live to copy or imitate another person’s lifestyle especially when the lifestyle is not Godly
As a single lady `you are not permitted to be scouting or living with a man when you are not married to him. This is totally and completely wrong and it shows no sign of Godliness and good character.
6.Don’t Wait Without Adding Value To Yourself:
This is one mistake that many women in many countries always make. So many were raised to believe that a woman does not need to earn money, but be a good housewife who does not earn money but take care of the children and the home. This has made many neglects the God-given abilities in them to bless the world. In the process, they earn some good money to support their families.
7.Never Fail To Discover Yourself:
If you don’t know why you exist in this world, you are bound to abuse your life, that is, misuse your worth and gifts.
8.Don’t live a Careless Life Before Marriage Finds You:
The way some young ladies live their lives show they are not laying the foundation for their future. They live so carelessly, connect with the wrong people, disdain spiritual things, play with academics and live as if there is no tomorrow. This is very dangerous
9.Don’t Speak ill of Men:
Be careful not to talk ill of men because you will one day get married to a man. Unknowingly to you that, whatever your belief has a way of affecting your reasoning and reaction.
10.Don’t Give in to Unrealistic Expectation:
If truly you are looking for a good husband, it is not good to begin to expect or aim too high so you will not be disappointed when the reality of life begins to unveil its self in your marriage.
11. Don’t Give in for Canopy Ministry:
This is an act by which a brother who has not really proposed to a lady is pretending they are in a relationship thereby sending the wrong signal to the people, and blocking all other brothers that may want to propose to the sister. It is also known as “shadowing.
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